You’re born and at last you will die – everything and the remainder in between are all trivia. I am able to hear you now – “are you mad, do not you have a hint as to what I ‘ve to put up with every day – children, managers, customers, partners, family, fiscal challenges, career choices, fellow workers.” – “Yes, I hear you – and – blah, blah, blah, and again – blah, blah, blah.”
Now could be a time that is very brief and eternity is forever and I do not give a rip about what you do not spiritually or believe – there’s more to the life experience than 70 or only 60 years on the world currently coping with its trivia.
Now do not get me wrong – natural disasters that take your house away, offenders who steal a loved one from you or becoming diagnosed with a life threating disease in your adolescents is huge things but in the end looking back over your life, let me ask you – did you spend too much precious time in tension, worry, frustration, anxiety, hopelessness, discouragement, fear etc. on items that actually did not matter or that you came to understand it was not worth the mental energy, time or resources you gave it? If you’re fair, I will wager every one of you, the response is yes to a lot or something.
So, what exactly is trivia? Well for starters it depends on many variables; your anticipations which don’t come to fruition, your time and effort that ending with failure or more issues, the cash spent on things that you lately threw away or given, relationships that end badly or too early – I could go on but if you’re honest you’ll come to the same decisions – in the end when you’re getting ready to head around to the other side and your time here is concluded none of that will have been worth giving it more than it deserved.
Why should we fret and stress over the trivia of life?- Could it be ego? The importance of control, the want to not appear sick or reach something or other’s acceptance else considerably deeper?
I consider the life way of overrating little things that are among the variables that are major is only self-aggrandisement or the basic need to feel like who you are and what you do – issue. This demand includes the ability to accept who you’re, wherever you’re in life, to be OK with what you have or do not have and the belief that what you do is significant – from being mommy or a janitor, from the sales rep to the CEO, from the retiree to the 20 year old.
I would like to ask you – Have you been stressing now about anything? Come on be reliable. OK if not today even in 2013 or how about this week or this month? Or, can you feel in complete control of every facet of your life – I ‘ll doubt the latter – that’s unless you happen to be living in denial in a cave someplace in Colorado.
Why not spend somewhat time creating what I call a “I ‘m in control of – list and a what I ‘m not in management of – list?” You might be surprised at what shows up on both lists but ultimately the material in your can not command list is people that are trivia whether you enjoy it or not or whether you agree with me or not.
I will not bore you with my 50 plus years of career, relationship, business and financial challenges, but looking back that I gave them more time and energy than they deserved is a much greater disappointment than the real information that occurred.
So before I move to my next issue that is little let me simply say that whatever you happen to be coping with or confronting in life nowadays over or now – time will be lost in the big wastebasket of sorrows.
Don’t waste your time. Enjoy the life fully. You won’t get another chance to live this same life. If you miss it once then you will never get exactly same time back. Be social with others, share your thoughts and receive their knowledge. Be partnered and enjoy the tour of life. Get someone to your life and become their friend as well. Play games, watch movies, use meez coin hack, go for swimming, go for partying , enjoy your job etc etc but ultimately love your life because life don’t come back again and again. Once you lost it then it is by gone. So if you don’t want to regret in near future enjoy present. Be happy in present don’t ruin it for the sake of future or remembering past.